Standing ByBy: Alison Buckholtz More than two million U. S. service members have been deployed to Iraq or Afghanistan in the last decade. More and more of these veterans are writing about their wartime experience, but few military spouses have shared the truth about what its like when a loved one leaves for battle. Standing By is Alison Buckholtzs candid account of her familys struggles during her husbands eight month deployment on an aircraft carrier in the