Matters of Life and DeathBy: Carol Wogrin Plenty of books explore the emotions of coping with grief and a loved ones death. But as psychologist Carol Wogrin has observed, there is little advice for those at a loss for words witnessing the process of dying. Matters of Life and Death discusses the importance of communicating with the terminally ill both through talking and nonverbal expression and offers suggestions for what to say to offer comfort, both emotional and physical.