Red FlagsBy: Gary S. Aumiller, Daniel Goldfarb Sure, he's gorgeous, funny, and charmingbut early in any doomed relationship there are warning signals foretelling the bad news to come. Studies show that most women will try to justify these signs, excusing them so they don't interfere with their fantasy of having met the perfect man. Unfortunately, such signs are usually all too propheticthey are the essence of what Gary Aumiller and Daniel Goldfarb call "Red