Oblimasculine Pride Flags | Single Or Double-Sided | 2 Sizes | Gender Identity and ExpressionObligender, pronounced ob li gender, is a gender that is defined by having a partial connection to one's AGAB because of coercion or abuse, as well as the presence of gender uncertainty. They feel obligated to performativity of their AGAB due to coercion abuse, so they feel that their gender identity would be different had they not been through that, but because they have, their gender identity is different. For example, an obligender person who is