When Dad Hurts MomBy: Lundy Bancroft Written by a therapist who specializes in abusive men, this guide reveals how abusers interact with and manipulate childrenand how mothers can help their children recover from the trauma of witnessing abuse. Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother? Mothers in physically or